What are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man? ok, what are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man. i am 16 and had sex with the school coach (don't judge)... my parents are leaving the state for 1 week, and i am staying home alone. and i know this 40 year old man that is a hunk and buff. and he told me to have a little fun this saturday. so i said yes... he took test for crabs, aids, ect. so what are the risks... |
| Well, for you STD's are an obvious hazard.For him,STD's and arrest are the obvious hazards.His age is irrelevant but you are age and he would be considered to be molesting you. |
What kind of sex is legal for a 15 year old gay guy to have? i am 15 years old and gay. i am really craving sex. i probably should wait until im older but i just cant, i NEED it. Can you help me |
you would have to look at where you live laws on age consent. i think its 16 with only people under 18 and if you 18 with any one 18 and up.
but even if you are gay you still have a responsibility when it comes to sex. and it should be with someone you are in love with, in a serious relationship and have dated for 6 months or more.here is a list to help you.
1. Why do you want to take it to the next level now?
2. How long do the two of you plan to stay together?
3. Are you prepared for the emotions you might feel afterward?
4. Have you talked about condoms?
5. Are you prepared with a form of protection?
6. Have you talked about what happens if you get STD?
7. Do you understand sexually transmitted diseases?
8. Are both of you absolutely sure that neither one of you has been with anyone else sexually in any way?
NO protection is a 100% and even the best can fail( protection is better than nothing) but having no sex is better than protection.
It only takes one time to get pregnant or an std
www.sexinfo101.com
www.plannedparenthood.org
I encourage to wait until you out of high school so you not have to risk or worry about risking you basic education.
I'm 19 a virgin with a bf ( virgin too) dating for 19 months and still going. my bf said he is ready when i am and will wait until I'm a 100% or more not matter how long it takes
e-mail and/or IM me for anything. |
Is it normal for a 16 year old boy to fantasy about gay sex? Hey all,
I'm 16 and I live in UK. For the past 6 months, I've been regularly thinking about gay sex. Having not done anything gay before, I am wandering if this is normal? Of course, I still think: Wow she's fit when I see a girl but I more and more often think that about guys too?
Is this normal and what do you suggest that I should do? If anything happens between me and another guy does that make me officially bi?
Thanks for all the help,
Jake. |
Hey if I can fantasise about a 16 year old guy having gay sex then why not you :)
Yes I know I know - inappropriate:)
Umm but anyway - Yes - whatever you fantasize about is normal as long as it does not cause harm to yourself or others.
As we get older our sexuality expands or grows - it just means this part of you has started to open up.
It may end up disappearing again but more likely that you are bi... and may even end up being gay later on - it just depends how your sexuality develops.
All good - don't stress buddy. |
What are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man? ok, what are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man. i am 16 and had sex with the school coach (don't judge please)... my parents are leaving the state for 1 week, and i am staying home alone. and i know this 40 year old man that is a hunk and buff. and he told me to have a little fun this saturday. so i said yes... he took test for crabs, aids, ect. so what are the risks... |
Cody,
Yes, of course there is the risk of HIV and other STDs, but that's not my main point.
I do not think that a 16-year-old and a 40-year-old can have a meaningful relationship, in terms of "boyfriend" relationships.
Of course, in terms of purely physical attraction, and physical sex, it could happen. But physical sex is only one aspect of a relationship.
A 16-year-old and a 40-year-old could have any number of relationships, but I do not think that any meaningful relationship you could have with this man would involve sex.
It sounds to me like you are focusing only on the physical side of the term "relationship," and that is a pity. |
Is it normal for a straight 13 year old boy to want to try gay sex? Hi im alex and im 13, straight, and about a year and a half into puberty. I have looked at a naked friend of mine and i did not get turned on at all not even a wiggle. I do have a very flexable back, whitch allows me to suck my own dick and scince then all i have wanted to do is try gay sex with my bi friend. Some one please help me. |
| Ummm this seems pretty normal and may I say way to go with the flexible back thing. Basically you found what it would be like to get your stuff sucked so you are now curious as to what it would feel like from someone else, but it seems like you have some typical signs of being gay at thirteen, but then again every 13 year old does, at this age I wouldn't except you to know...maybe when you're seventeen. Right now you're horny, there's alot hormones, and you're curious, so just go with it, and believe me don't worry bc everyone finds out eventually and sooner than you think. It's not bad being gay so don't convince yourself your not if you are. PEACE |
Is it illegal or risky for me (14) to have gay sex with a 22 year old guy? So im home alone today and tomorrow. And my brothers friend is really hott and he knew i was staying at home said you wanna play xbox and have fun (gay sex)? He hinted he might bring some friends Im really shy and i dunno what will happen. Is it risky? And i Know he dose not have Aids, because he said he will buy the quick test packs before we do it? Will it make me more confident? |
On your other question you said you were 17..
So yeah, a 17 year old can have sexxxi tym wit hu eva he wnts |
My 14 yr old gay son had sex with a older man? ok my son is gay and one day i came home and saw him haveing sex with a man in his 30s so i kicked the mans *** and my son said that i hate him for being gay. how do i get him to see that its bad to have sex with older men |
The problem here is that the man is older, not that he's a man, right...?
Show you love him for who he is and that you don't judge him for his sexuality. If you can show the sexual orientation isn't the reason you dislike the man he had sex with, he'll be more likely to listen to your reasoning. He probably felt judged by you.
Point out the level of maturity difference between a 14 year old and a 30 year old... recommend him to start dating guys his own age. Could be worth mentioning it's illegal for a 30 year old to have sex with a 14 year old for a reason. (Assuming it is illegal in your jurisdiction.)
Edit: Megan: She asked how to show her guy it's bad to have sex with older men. One could read your answer to mean she should hit her son :| |